A top is usually a person who penetrates , a bottom is usually one who receives penetration, and a versatile engages in both activities or is open to engaging in either activity. In that way, gay men are way more picky than woman in life matters and sexual play, but also good at prioritizing their choices. I am a bottom. Therefore, this concept differs from heterosexual relationships where sexual compatibility does not begin with guessing who will end up as top or bottom. If you are outraged by content that addresses sex openly and honestly, I invite you to examine this outrage and ask yourself whether it should instead be directed at those who oppress us by policing our sexuality. Gender differences in sexual behaviors and fantasies in a college population, , erschienen in: With regard to gay male sexuality, a total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for sex.
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Retrieved from " https: Login to your Account X. When used in reference to heterosexual and lesbian sex , the terms top, bottom and versatile usually refer only to position and not to the penetrative role. Because nobody said serious science couldn't be silly! July Learn how and when to remove this template message. Nor should they have to change.